True Worth: Finding Value Beyond the Surface

Daily Gospel Truth Ministries
Jul 7, 2025
26 min read

Updated: Mar 3

Description: This 8-day devotional aims to guide both men and women to focus on what truly matters in a person, emphasizing character and values instead of just superficial forms of attraction. To summarize, we’re going against societal norms and looking to the Lord instead.

Theme Verse: 1 Samuel 16:7

Bible Version: New American Standard Bible (NASB 1995)

Day 1: Appearance is Deceiving

Society is constantly telling us that we are not good enough as we are. If you open any social media app, it’s staring you right in the face. Society says we must conform to its standards to be “good enough.” Society is lying to us every single day. The Lord Jesus Christ says to ALL, “COME AS YOU ARE, I do not care if you are sick, in prison, on death row, addicted to drugs or porn, adulterous, or whatever else you are, truly I say unto you, come as you are, and I will give you peace, hope, healing, joy, and strength.” Matthew 11:28-30 states, ²⁸“Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest. ²⁹Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. ³⁰For My yoke is easy, and My burden is light.”

What do you see when you look at the world? Do you see a world that’s solely focused on imagery? Social status, financial status, physical status, and political status are just some of the many images our world prioritizes. Many in our world look down on those who are homeless, those who wear cheaper clothes, those who make less annually, or those who drive older cars; however, the Bible teaches that images can be deceiving.

1 Samuel 16:7 tells us, ⁷“But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not look at his appearance or at the height of his stature, because I have rejected him; for God sees not as man sees, for man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”

The outward appearance is simply a façade, a fake story about a person. It rarely reveals internal struggles or beliefs; thus, people need to look to the heart. Have you ever judged someone based on their looks alone? Like me, you’d have to say yes. Any other answer would be false. I am sure that you have met people who are less fortunate than you. I am also sure that many of those people have been very courteous. Just because someone looks different from you doesn’t mean they differ in beliefs or morals.

Know this: No one can change what is in their heart, meaning it cannot be hidden. A person’s heart holds their true thoughts, feelings, beliefs, and such. Humans often use their bodies as a tool to hide what they’re actually feeling or thinking. Humans also use their bodies as a way to get what they want. We often use our physical, social, and financial statuses to obtain what we desire. Almost everyone dresses nicer when they go to job interviews. Why is that? It is because an employer is not just looking for someone with knowledge but also an employee who can physically represent their business to their customer base. An interviewee who is dressed professionally also lets the employer know just how dedicated they are to obtaining that job.

Bible Verse:

1. Matthew 11:28-30

2. Samuel 16:7

Application:

I charge you to give people a second chance. Look past their physical and look to their heart, for that’s where true worth is found.
I charge you to come as you are before the Lord, for that’s how we ought to always come before the Lord every day of our lives. It’s an act of humility and repentance.

Prayer:

Lord, I come humbly before you and ask that you would open my eyes to see as you see. To not look on the outward appearance as the world does, but rather to the heart as you do. Lord, in your infinite wisdom, I pray that you will guide my steps and help me to trust in you. Lord, I ask that You would shape me into the person You desire me to be and give me the strength to walk in this lost world, proclaiming the good news to all. I pray this in your Son’s holy, righteous, and wonderful name, Amen.

Day 2

Day 2. Chivalry in the Modern Age

Chivalry is courteous behavior that knights held themselves to by their code of ethics back in medieval times. Chivalry in modern days is defined as men’s courtesy toward women. However, chivalry isn't just about being respectful and honorable to women. In fact, it also means that we should be seeking to be more like Christ in this world. A man of chivalry fears and honors the Lord. Chivalry in our time is at an all-time low. There's no excuse for this. Men should honor, respect, love, protect, and care for women.

1 Peter 3:7 states, ⁷“You husbands in the same way, live with your wives in an understanding way, as with someone weaker, since she is a woman; and show her honor as a fellow heir of the grace of life, so that your prayers will not be hindered.” Chivalry is a decision that men should make, not by compulsion but by free will. A godly man respects women because he knows that they are formed in God's image and, hence, fundamentally worthy of their courtesy (i.e., respect).

God calls us to do this, even in the older Testament. In the last chapter of Proverbs, we learned what mothers want their sons to look for in a spouse and how to act around their spouse. Men are to fully trust in their wives. Men aren't to lord themselves over their wives, even as heads of the household. Men are to cherish and encourage their wives. Women are PRICELESS. They are worth more than any form of money or jewelry. Proverbs 31:10 states, ¹⁰“An excellent wife, who can find? For her worth is far above jewels.”

Where is your heart? Is your heart set on God and honoring all that He has created, or is your heart set on what society deems as “right”? What are your intentions? At one point in your life, you are going to go on a date, so are your intentions godly, and if they aren’t, what are you doing about that? Part of being chivalrous is not just service and selflessness but also honoring your future spouse before you even meet them. We’ll talk more about that as we study the Word together.

The Bible is a resource that can change your life for the better. You need only to open it and be intentional in studying it and seeking God to guide you through that process. God will meet you where you are; you only need to knock, and He will come. Chivalry is not a sign of men viewing women as weak, but as valued. It’s a sign of respect and love.

Bible Verse:

1. 1 Peter 3:7

2. Proverbs 31:10

Application:

Men, whether you are single or in a relationship, honor women. You can do this simply by opening a door for them or by helping them to carry something.
Women, allow men to be courteous to you, for it’s an act of humility and respect on their part. It’s also an act of service.

Prayer:

Lord, I come humbly before You, seeking Your guidance to have a servant’s heart in my relationships, honoring and respecting one another as taught in Your Word. Help me to be chivalrous or to accept an act of chivalry. May I prioritize my relationship with You above all else and reflect Your light in a world that often overlooks and undermines these core values. I pray this in your Son’s holy, righteous, and wonderful name, Amen.

Day 3

Day 3. How Feminism Truly Works

Feminism is the belief that women can do everything a man can and that the social norms of a husband providing for a family and the woman staying home are sexist. Additionally, chivalrous men are now considered misogynistic. These statements are not true for numerous reasons. Genesis 1:27 states, ²⁷“God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them.” Genesis reminds us that God gave men and women separate roles. God placed Adam in charge of the garden and placed Eve as his helper. Additionally, a woman cannot biologically start the process of having a child without the man. Furthermore, women alone can provide for their baby’s nutritional needs, not men.

The idea that a man providing for their family is wrong is false. Sure, wives can get jobs like their husbands, or the wife could provide for the family, and the husband stays at home. There is nothing wrong with any of these, but to devalue the husband’s position in a marriage is not Biblical. Ephesians 5:22-23 states, ²²“Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. ²³For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church, He Himself being the Savior of the body.”

Let’s also not forget that being a mother is an essential role in the family structure. A mother cares for her and her husband’s children while aiding in the running of the household. Proverbs 31:25-28 states, ²⁵“Strength and dignity are her clothing, And she smiles at the future. ²⁶She opens her mouth in wisdom, And the teaching of kindness is on her tongue. ²⁷She looks well to the ways of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. ²⁸Her children rise up and bless her; Her husband also, and he praises her, saying:” Feminism is not only made up of false accusations against men, but it doesn’t align with biblical truths.

Parents play a crucial role in society, raising the next generation of presidents, lawyers, first responders, educators, and pastors, which are just some of the many goals that children want to meet, and parents help their children reach.

Bible Verse:

1. Genesis 1:27

2. Ephesians 5: 22-33

3. Proverbs 31:25-28

Application:

For women, chivalry is a sign of respect from a man, not a sign of disrespect, stating that you can’t do something, so let men be a gentleman. (Open a door, carry your groceries, and pull out a chair for you).
Women are different from men, and vice versa; thus, they have different roles in this world. Remember that.
There is much value in being a mother, and there is much value in supporting your family, whether as a stay-at-home father or mother or as the supporter of the family in a career. No one role outweighs the other, thereby being equally needed. Remember, God created men and women to work together as partners.

Prayer:

Lord, I come humbly before You with a grateful heart, fully acknowledging the beauty and purpose in the roles You have given to both men and women. Help me to see and honor the differences You have designed, knowing that chivalry is a sign of respect, not weakness, and that both men and women contribute uniquely to family and society. Lord, strengthen me and help me to embrace the value of motherhood and fatherhood, whether in the home or workplace and remind me that both roles are essential in Your eyes. Neither is of more value than the other, for a child needs both parents, just as the Lord intended. Guide me to live in truth and love and to value the roles you’ve created. I pray this in your Son’s holy, righteous, and wonderful name, Amen.

Day 4

Day 4. Is Modesty Sexist or Prohibitive?

Just as the man is to honor his wife, the woman ought to honor her husband. Modesty is often taught as the idea of preventing a man from stumbling by women concealing their bodies in numerous cultures; however, it should be taught as a way to honor the Lord with your body. 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 states, ¹⁹“Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and that you are not your own?²⁰For you have been bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body.” There have been questions raised as to whether or not modesty is sexist. While it may be perceived as sexist, let’s not forget about the anatomical differences. The argument that a man can take off his shirt and mow the lawn while women can’t is rather poor.

Does modesty prevent the expression of oneself? No, it does not, as there are other ways to express yourself other than your physical appearance, such as your character and beliefs.

The application of modesty should be more to honor the Lord and show respect for yourself, rather than to prevent the stumbling of man, as some Eastern religions prioritize. 1 Timothy 2:9-10, NASB 1995 states, ⁹“Likewise, I want women to adorn themselves with proper clothing, modestly and discreetly, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly garments, ¹⁰but rather by means of good works, as is proper for women making a claim to godliness.” Modesty should focus on the dignity of self and the honoring of the Lord.

Throughout the Bible, God puts less and less emphasis on outward appearance and prioritizes matters of the heart. God cares more about one’s heart posture than how they dress. 1 Peter 3:3-4 states, ³“Your adornment must not be merely external—braiding the hair, and wearing gold jewelry, or putting on dresses;⁴but let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the imperishable quality of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in the sight of God.”

God wants our hearts and minds set on Him and not on the ways of our world. Remember, our world is fallen, ever so desiring to follow their ways instead of the Lord’s. Right after the Lord brought His enslaved people out of the land of Egypt, leading them to the promised land as a free people, they began to not only complain against God but also begged to return to Egypt as slaves. Not only that, they even created an idol made of gold in the shape of a calf to worship as their savior rather than the Lord. Mankind today continues this trend, putting their faith in science, Greek gods, Egyptian gods, government, themselves, or other deities from different cultures. Romans 12:2 states, ²“And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect.” Just because the world goes one way does not mean you should follow along. As Christians, we are to be set apart from this world, as the Lord is, which John 15:18 supports, ¹⁸“If the world hates you, you know that it has hated Me before it hated you.” We need to honor the Lord in all that we do, say, and think.

Bible Verse:

1. 1 Corinthians 6:19-20

2. 1 Timothy 2:9-10

3. 1 Peter 3:3-4

Romans 12:2

5. John 15:18

Application:

1. Women and men alike should embrace modesty, not as a restriction imposed by culture or society, but as a way to honor God and uphold personal dignity. Our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, and how we present ourselves should reflect that truth.

2. Whether single or in a relationship, practice self-control by avoiding temptations such as pornography, explicit media, or viewing others in a way that objectifies them. Instead, strive to see others as God’s children, worthy of respect and honor.

3. Regardless of relationship status, men and women should uphold mutual respect, recognizing and honoring personal and moral boundaries.

Prayer:

Lord, I come humbly before You with a grateful heart, fully acknowledging how unique we are, as You created us in Your image. I ask, Lord, that You would direct my eyes and mind in a way that honors You regarding the opposite sex, thus honoring You and my future spouse. I pray that I will trust Your timing regarding a future spouse and that when the right one comes along, I will honor this person in a way that brings You all the glory and honor. I pray this in Your Son’s holy, righteous, and wonderful name, Amen.

Day 5

Day 5. The Lies & Consequences of Porn

As a man or a woman in this world, you are to honor your future spouse before you even meet them. Pornography is not honoring your future spouse but, most importantly, the Lord. The Bible states that we should watch what our eyes and ears observe and use what God gave us to honor Him and to serve others. Proverbs 4:23-27 states, ²³“Watch over your heart with all diligence, For from it flow the springs of life. ²⁴Put away from you a deceitful mouth And put devious speech far from you.²⁵Let your eyes look directly ahead And let your gaze be fixed straight in front of you. ²⁶Watch the path of your feet And all your ways will be established. ²⁷Do not turn to the right nor to the left. Turn your foot from evil.”

Pornography is one of the largest money-making industries where men and women commit acts that are usually done within a marriage for financial gain. It is one of the most dangerous industries to be a part of due to the health risks, so why do people do it? People do this for many reasons: they are told this is where their worth is (body alone), they have financial struggles, or they are ignorant of the reality of what is occurring due to familial issues and other reasons.

God tells us that the body should honor the Lord, as we are made in His image. 1 Corinthians 6:13b, states, ^13b“Yet the body is not for immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord is for the body.” Why do people watch porn? A lot of people watch porn because we live in a society that objectifies women; however, let’s not forget that many in the porn industry are victims of this ideology that our society promotes.

However, Matthew 5:28 reminds us, ²⁸“but I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” While this verse applies to husbands, let us not forget that watching porn or sex scenes does not honor your future spouse. Should not the marriage bed be holy, only for a husband and wife? Should not spouses alone see each other’s nakedness as the Bible teaches? Are not the women and men in pornography videos or sex scenes someone’s son, uncle, cousin, nephew, father, grandson, husband, daughter, aunt, niece, granddaughter, mother, or wife? Who are we to uncover their nakedness just because they may be willing? Remember, Romans 14:12, ¹²“So then each one of us will give an account of himself to God.” This states that the one who dishonors their body will have to give an account before the Lord for their deeds, just as the one who uncovers their nakedness, such as watching porn or sex scenes, will also have to give an account before the Lord for where their eyes and thoughts strayed. Just because it is out there doesn’t mean “Hey, go seek it out”. Again, we are not to follow the ways of society just because they deem something as right, even when God Himself says it is an abomination.

People who watch porn are everyday teenagers, fathers, husbands, mothers, wives, etc. Studies have shown that people who watch porn often do so in secret. Proverbs 28:13 tells us that, ¹³“He who conceals his transgressions will not prosper, But he who confesses and forsakes them will find compassion.” If there is something you need to confess before God and a loved one, you should. Don’t be afraid, as 1 John 1:9states, ⁹“If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” Give your loved one time to process what you tell them. Give it to God in prayer. Seek Him to heal you. Remember, you cannot heal another person, so give it to God to heal your loved one. Trust in Him. God can heal broken relationships. Seek aid if this is you.

Pornography, like any addiction, is a parasite that promises pleasure but grows like a deadly disease that consumes you until it takes over your thoughts, time, and money. As I said earlier, it affects those you love, stealing your loyalty, heart, and time. If you are in a relationship or desire to be in one, know this: these parasites will only threaten your most valued relationships. If you truly love the man or woman you’re in a relationship with or desire to build a relationship with, you need to eliminate any addiction that has your heart and give your heart to them, but ultimately, the Lord. Remember, you cannot serve both God and money; therefore, you cannot serve your addiction and the person you love, including God. You would risk destroying both yourself and your relationships. You must choose one. Matthew 6:24 says it best, ²⁴“No one can serve two masters, for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and money.”

Bible Verse:

1. Proverbs 4:23-27

2. 1 Corinthians 6:13b

3. Matthew 5:28

4. Romans 14:12

5. Proverbs 28:13

6. 1 John 1:9

7. Matthew 6:24

Application:

1. Parents, when the time comes, such as puberty, educate your children about the topic of sex and how we ought to honor the Lord with our actions and thoughts. They should find out from you rather than the internet or a friend. One way or another, your child will find it out if it does not come from you.

2. Children, if you have a question about sex or whatever, seek first your parents, not friends, and especially not the internet.

3. Parents and children, this topic should be brought up with God in mind, seeking to put Him at the center of the topic, helping all to understand the gravity of the topic and how to best follow what He states on the topic.

4. If you are in this industry, understand that God loves you and that you’re worth more than what society deems you to be. You’re not an object to be displayed but a person to be loved, respected, and cherished. God sent His only Son to die for you. You’re worth so much that Christ died for you.

Prayer:

Lord, I come humbly before You with a thankful heart, knowing that we are fearfully and wonderfully made. If I have dishonored You with my actions, eyes, and thoughts, Lord, I ask that You would reveal this to me and help me to stray from this sin. I know it may not be easy or quick, but I am committed to glorifying You with my body, so I dedicate myself to straying from this sin and putting You first. Lord, help me to see my worth from Your perspective and not society's, for You call me priceless, a child of God, and made in Your image. You sent Your Son to die for me, showing that I am loved but more importantly, valued by my Creator. I thank you and praise you for this truth. I pray this in your Son’s holy, righteous, and wonderful name, Amen.

Day 6

Day 6. Fornication & Adultery

I find it interesting that Hollywood and most other industries promote sex before marriage. People in our society keep promoting, “Let’s have sex, but have ZERO of the responsibility.” This is why abortion is such a hot-button topic, because people don’t want to save sex for the marriage bed; they want to have “fun” despite the cost to others, such as the unborn. Having sex is what creates children, so of course, having sex makes that a possibility, hence why it is meant for the marriage bed; that way, when a child is born, they have both a father and a mother to raise the baby together as God intended. On a side note, abortion is an abomination to the Lord. No child should die for the sins of their parents, no matter the circumstances. Life begins at conception.

Fornication is having sexual relations outside of marriage. Society has now normalized this for decades, where people who “date” have sex with each other or live together before marriage (i.e., hookup culture). This violates Hebrews 13:4, which says, ⁴“Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled; for fornicators and adulterers God will judge.” Sex is a holy act when done within marriage. Marriage, that is conducted under God and with witnesses. This means that common law marriage does not honor God, as that is society's version of modern dating, where people live together.

Fornication is similar to adultery in that both defile the marriage bed. One where sex is committed outside of marriage, and one where a spouse has sex with another besides their spouse. Exodus 20:14 lists one of the Ten Commandments as, ¹⁴“You shall not commit adultery.” Matthew 5:28 reveals that just looking at someone other than your spouse with lust is adultery, ²⁸“but I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” Fornication or adultery are both acts that defile the marriage bed and a person’s own body.

1 Corinthians 6:18-20 says, ¹⁸“Flee immorality. Every other sin that a man commits is outside the body, but the immoral man sins against his own body.¹⁹Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and that you are not your own? ²⁰For you have been bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body.”

To commit fornication or adultery, you not only sin against God and yourself but also against your spouse and your loved ones. Your sins don’t just affect you alone. They have a way of affecting those around you. Romans 5:12 says it like this: ¹²“Therefore, just as through one man sin entered into the world, and death through sin, and so death spread to all men because all sinned.” God sees adultery as an abomination, so much so that in the Old Testament, He says, ¹⁰“If there is a man who commits adultery with another man’s wife, one who commits adultery with his friend’s wife, the adulterer, and the adulteress shall surely be put to death. ¹¹If there is a man who lies with his father’s wife, he has uncovered his father’s nakedness; both of them shall surely be put to death, their bloodguiltiness is upon them. ¹²If there is a man who lies with his daughter-in-law, both of them shall surely be put to death; they have committed incest, and their bloodguiltiness is upon them,” Leviticus 20:10-12. Now, death is not the punishment for this violation of God’s law anymore; I share this only to emphasize how seriously God views the sin of adultery.

Bible Verse:

1. Hebrews 13:4

2. Matthew 5:28

3. Exodus 20:14

4. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20

5. Romans 5:12

6. Leviticus 20:10-12

Application:

1. If your date wants sex, just say no and break up with that person. Sex is for the marriage bed alone, and not a second before. You’re worth more than your body, which is all that your date wants if they want to have sex before marriage. This is not hyperbole; it is fact.

2. Life begins at conception. Babies are not diseases or parasites as many will lead you to believe. Babies are a gift from God that a lot of people in this world can’t have due to fertility issues, so don’t take your baby for granted, for there are many who wish to be in your shoes.

3. Adultery is what tears most marriages apart, so understand that if you defile the marriage bed by sleeping with someone other than your spouse, you are risking your marriage, breaking the trust with family members, but most of all, sinning against God and dishonoring Him with your body.

4. God wants mankind to have sex. He is not against sex. He created sex. God wants mankind to have that pleasure; however, He wants it within the marriage bed because that shows patience, integrity, responsibility, respect, and obedience to Him and the married couple. To summarize, not having sex before marriage shows that both spouses value the other past the physical and more importantly, value what’s in their hearts, just as the Lord desires.

Prayer:

Lord, I come humbly before You today with a heart full of thanksgiving for the rich blessings that You have provided me. Lord, I know that this goes against culture, but I care to follow You and not what society deems as right, so I pray that You will guide my heart, eyes, and thoughts to honor You regarding the subject of sex and dating. I don’t want to be swept up by emotional desires that I make a decision that dishonors You and the person I am dating. I pray that when I do date, we will both honor You, putting You first. I pray that we would both look to each other’s hearts rather than physical appearance, for where the heart is, is true worth, as according to Your Word. I pray this in your Son’s holy, righteous, and wonderful name, Amen.

Day 7

Day 7. Beginner Dating Guide: Part 1

When looking for a future spouse, most people look at the physical. This is common knowledge and practice; in fact, it’s predominantly what our society teaches. The physical aspect is the most abused image when seeking a life partner. Physical appearance is often used to manipulate others into giving in to another person’s desires. Sure, physical appearance is important because future spouses should feel attracted to each other. That is not a sin; however, making physical attraction an idol, therefore prioritizing it above God, is a sin.

Physical attraction alone is not more important than what’s in the heart, which God values above the physical. To both men and women, the most attractive quality a future spouse has is a never-ending love for Jesus Christ. Looks fade, but a heart for God makes an everlasting impression. Would you rather build a family with a man or woman who not only is physically attractive but is also God-fearing, or would you rather build a family with an attractive man or woman and risk your offspring growing up to be disrespectful of your parental roles and never grow up knowing the sacrificial love of the Lord?

Not only does marrying an unbeliever threaten your future offspring, but also you as the other spouse. 2 Corinthians 6:14 tells us ¹⁴“Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?”

If you get nothing else out of this, at least get this. Men, do not date women just because of their looks. Women, do not date men just because of their looks. Look past the superficial and look to the heart because that is what matters the most. Do not treat others the way the world does, but as Jesus Christ did. Men and women do not settle. You deserve a spouse who loves the Lord above all else.

Trust not in yourself, but trust in the Lord. Trust that He will provide when the time is right. Seek the Lord first, and He will provide for you. Matthew 6:33 tells us, ³³“But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” All in all, do not trust what you first see, hear, and touch, but rather investigate deeper for the truth. Finding the right spouse takes patience and trust in the Lord’s timing. I am not married, so I am in the same boat as you if you are single. My point is that while you're single, God is teaching you lessons that are preparing you for a relationship with your future spouse. Don't make being in a relationship your top priority, or else you risk not learning the lessons God is trying to teach you. Make God your TOP priority, and everything else will fall into place within His timing.

Men, if you’re looking to get married or already are, keep Ephesians 5:25-33 in mind and pray this is you, for your future wife or wife deserves nothing less than this, ²⁵“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her, ²⁶so that He might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, ²⁷that He might present to Himself the church in all her glory, having no spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that she would be holy and blameless. ²⁸So husbands ought also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself;²⁹for no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ also does the church, ³⁰because we are members of His body. ³¹For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and shall be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh. ³²This mystery is great; but I am speaking with reference to Christ and the church. ³³Nevertheless, each individual among you also is to love his own wife even as himself, and the wife must see to it that she respects her husband.”

Women, if you’re looking to get married or already are, keep 1 Peter 3:1-6 in mind and pray this is you, for your future husband or husband deserves nothing less than this, ¹“In the same way, you wives, be submissive to your own husbands so that even if any of them are disobedient to the word, they may be won without a word by the behavior of their wives, ²as they observe your chaste and respectful behavior.³Your adornment must not be merely external—braiding the hair, and wearing gold jewelry, or putting on dresses; ⁴but let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the imperishable quality of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in the sight of God. ⁵For in this way in former times the holy women also, who hoped in God, used to adorn themselves, being submissive to their own husbands; ⁶just as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, and you have become her children if you do what is right without being frightened by any fear.”

Bible Verse:

2 Corinthians 6:14
Matthew 6:33
Ephesians 5:25-33
1 Peter 3:1-6

Application:

Men and women, I charge you also to pray for your future spouse and to trust in God’s timing. Also, honor your future spouse before you even know them by honoring them with your eyes, thoughts, and actions.
I charge you also not to settle for a spouse but to patiently wait for the one God sends your way, for the spouse He chooses for you is perfect for you to do life with.

Prayer:

Lord, I come humbly before You today with a heart full of trust and surrender. Lord, I ask that You guide me as I seek a future spouse, someone who loves You above all else. Help me not to be swayed by mere physical appearance but to look deeper into the heart and soul that reflects Your love and righteousness. May I be patient in Your timing, fully trusting that You will provide the right person who will walk with me in faith, glorifying You in all we do, as we will do life together. Protect me from settling for less than what You have planned, and strengthen my faith as I wait for the spouse You have chosen for me. Teach me to seek first Your kingdom and righteousness, knowing that all else will be added because of Your perfect Will. I pray this in your Son’s holy, righteous, and wonderful name, Amen.

Day 8

Day 8. Beginner Dating Guide: Part 2

Here are 7 essential questions to ask as a Christian in the Dating World:

How would you describe your personal relationship with God and the way you grow your faith in Christ? James 4:8, ⁸“Draw near to God and He will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners; and purify your hearts, you double-minded.”
How important is prayer in your daily life, and how does it influence your walk with the Lord? 1 Thessalonians 5:17, ¹⁷“pray without ceasing.”What principles or values are most important to you, and how do they guide your decisions and actions? Matthew 6:33, ³³“But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
When facing difficulties, how do you respond, and how does your faith in God shape the way you deal with tribulations? Philippians 4:13, ¹³“I can do all things through Him who strengthens me.”
How do you like to spend your free time, and what activities or hobbies bring you joy and fulfillment? Psalm 37:4, ⁴“Delight yourself in the Lord; And He will give you the desires of your heart.”
What does a godly relationship between a man and a woman look Like to You? Ephesians 5:25, ²⁵“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her.”
What are your long-term goals? (Ex. Where do you see yourself in 5-10 years)? Proverbs 16:3, ³“Commit your works to the Lord, And your plans will be established.”

These questions are designed to help a young couple put God at the forefront of their new relationship and, for the foreseeable future, honor Him first in all that they do. Christians shouldn’t settle or marry unbelievers. Christians should trust in the Lord’s timing because He knows what’s best and has a plan we can’t comprehend, but, oh, it’s the perfect plan for you. If you’re unsure what love is, you need to look no further than to the Cross, for that’s where love was poured out for all of mankind. ¹⁶“For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life,” John 3:16.

Bible Verse:

1. James 4:8,

2. Thessalonians 5:17

3. Matthew 6:33

4. Philippians 4:13

5. Psalm 37:4

6. Ephesians 5:25

7. Proverbs 16:3

8. John 3:16

Application:

1. Ask yourself this: what are your intentions for dating? (i.e., the end goal) The end goal of dating should be marriage. If you’re dating just to date or whatever else, you’re just wasting your time.

2. Do not abide by what society deems as “right” regarding dating or marriage. Seek counsel from loved ones, but especially the Lord through His Word.

3. Pray for your future spouse, pray that he or she seeks the Lord in everything. Pray for his or her protection from the evil one. Pray continuously throughout your dating whether together or separately.

Prayer:

Lord, I come humbly before You today, wanting to give You the glory, the praise, and the honor for who You are and what You’ve done for me. Lord, I ask that you guide me as I put myself out there, available for dating. I pray that I will trust your timing and provision. I pray that I will honor You and put You first. Protect me from getting swept up in the excitement of it all and becoming ignorant of Your guidance. Lord, protect my future spouse from the lies of the evil one. Lord, may You provide guidance to my future spouse. Lord, I pray that You would help us when the time comes to honor You not as the world does, but as two Christians seeking a future together should, with You at the forefront. I pray this in your Son’s holy, righteous, and wonderful name, Amen.

True Worth: Finding Value Beyond the Surface

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